Böcker av Adesegun Galib Adekinle

Looking through the earth, today, the hike in the rates of unstable love affairs is hitting alarming proportion Here and there; you see relationships with broken hedges, and homes build upon feeble foundations, making things unsafe. Hence, the escalation in the rates of divorcing, and of single parents, that is now becoming the starring nature of our contemporary societies' marriage culture, home building, and family type. The heaven roars in displeasure. The earth is groaning. The humans' hearts are still there in futile struggle for freedom from the tighter grip of the gale of fear. Something is amiss.What possible end of fate do you expect to become your lot when you are without that vital sense of the right person, and wrong person, to wed? What do you expect to be when you are without the knowledge of the right things to do and the wrong things to avoid, and the right path to walk and wrong path not to walk while attempting a love pursuit into marriage and home building? What kind of end of experience to love pursuit do you expect to the one who puts his/er heart behind for the eyes to dictate which path to walk in the making of choice?In my former book, "find ideal mate, build and sustain a loving relationship." I offer you with exposure into certain weaknesses in your human's approach to love related issues that rob you the chance into an ideal mate finding, Thus, this book exists to offer a good guidance on how to have a stable marriage, and sustaining a stable marriage into an ever-happier home.

Issue of love and relationship is occupying a nub place of importance in the humans' affairs today given the fact of different individual tends to view love and relationship as a mean to the attainment of varied human's ends. Humans hold varied ends, and expectations, on love and relationship, given the reigning influences of varied humans' views, and perceptions, dictating varied humans' motives, and approaches, to love related issues. What is at issue to you in love relationship might not walk in concord to that of mine in that, true love means different thing to different person, making different person to desire different things, or takes cognizance of different factors, in others for a love relationship to build. Thus, issue of perfection, and imperfection, in humans, and in love relationships, tends to manifest conflicting kinds of nature within the contexts of humans' conceptions.Finding ideal mate, building and sustaining a loving relationship is one awesome life experience a person can ever has to aver confidently of being in a meaningful relationship, or having a fulfilled dream of a happier lot ever end of experience to love pursuit. Yet, it remains one elusive kind of pursuit that most singles, in searching of soul mates, find very big a challenge. Against that which is of the most essence, to a large majority of people; the issue of stable love affair, to a happier lot ever end of experience to love pursuit attainment, is of the secondary place of importance for occupation. It calls to the others; either it is of the third, or utterly bereft of every crucial place of importance, in consideration. Thus, here and there; you see widespread of nondescript, and of unstable, love affairs; you heard of frightful tales of broken hearts, and of disappointing ends of experiences to love pursuit. It is becoming a celebrated issue- a social norm, rather than exception.Such ruling states of affair about the world, today, do trigger off myriad of love related questions revolving around the essence and the nature of love thus: Is it actually worth it venturing into love relationship or wiser staying out it completely?Does true love really exist?What are the essences of going into love pursuit or a love relationship building?Why do people habitually tend to go in pursuit of love affairs that are of the tendencies of attracting so huge cost, but earning so little satisfaction; or with not any fulfillment whatsoever, but only a shattered hope at last?Is to love a sin and being loved a crime?Opinions differ.Ideal love means different thing to different person due to varied angles of perceptions. When a person views love from a negative highland, such is bound to approach a love relationship building accordingly, walking the wrong path to the realm of a meaningfully enduring love relationship building and sustenance. Thus, the noble end, of happier lot ever end of experience to love pursuit, becomes an elusive kind of dream to the attainment. That is because when a person has become given to too much of certain life or love's assumptions, then, it becomes practically impracticable a decision being up to embrace and being appreciative of the potential ideal one with undying love type. With the virtue of will to the wholehearted acceptance of the potential ideal one with ideal love type into the equality of partnership erode, then unpleasant ends of experience to love pursuit is bound to be.Thus, I write this book to the challenge of such life, and love, assumptions that have been for time long holding sway in the lives of a larger majority of people. Yet, having offered so little, or nothing whatsoever, in helping the adherents to have a fulfilled end of experience to the dreams and expectations built on the love pursuit