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#1 Reader's Comment: "I couldn't put it down." "We can't expect to spend our life in fantasy and ever know what it feels like to be real." In UNperfect, we unashamedly share, with wit and suspense, hard and messy parts of our story from individual perspectives-how we hustled for the fantasy marriage and perfect Christian life. Yet we learned, it's only through a willingness to risk discomfort, wade into the deep, brave hard things, have the courage to live "unperfect"that we find the real life and love we've longed for.After years of hustling to be perfect enough, we invited perfect love (Jesus) in the middle of our mess, shattering fantasy and launching a comeback at love and life, concluding we're enough to Jesus and each other. We dare you to join the UNperfect movement with us!"UNperfect Marriage is a great example...The journey of regular people learning to make the necessary adjustments to keep a hold on one another is not for wimps. Let me recommend to you this wonderful story and great tools for building a lifelong connection."Danny Silk, author of Keep Your Love On and Unpunishable

How to Get Over Wanting a Perfect Marriage Marriage is messy. Ours has been very messy, but we found the deepest love developed in our biggest struggles. Through our discoveries, we grew up and learned to practice connection. Money, status, and things did not bring us happiness. Buying the nice house, getting good jobs, having more money, and finding the best schools for our kids did not improve our marriage. We turned the pursuit of stuff into a quest for certainty and security. The trouble is that our pursuit of the American Dream/fantasy put us on the performance treadmill. After years of pleasing, perfecting, performing, and, many times, hustling to get it right, we've come to the conclusion that we are enough. We are enough to Jesus and we are enough to each other. "The Unperfect Marriage" is a book to bring liberation for couples trapped in the fantasy of perfection. Jesus showed us how to receive His perfect love in our imperfectness. We hope it will inspire you to do the same thing. becourageouscoaching.com